Robservations for August 23, 2018

I see a lot of information about what people
think the perfect partner should be and
all the wonderful things they should do for
you every day. I find the lists quite amusing
as it seems that a lot of people feel
they are entitled to a pretty amazing situation.
It would take a lot to be that partner.
What most folks don’t think about is their
own part in all of that. It would be great to
have someone do all these things for you
but what are you willing to do in return?
How perfect of a partner are you? Are you
reading that list as a list of expectations or
a list of duties?
The catch of the whole thing is life is about
who you are, not what you expect from
others. What is the best way to meet incredible
people? It is simple. Be an incredible
person.
Be that person who can see the wants and
needs of others and goes out and fills
those voids. Be that person who smiles
and says a kind word to everyone. Be that
person who supports everyone in their
dreams. Be that person who listens and
understands.
Be that perfect partner yourself before you
have any expectations of anyone else being
perfect for you.