We live so much of our lives within our own tiny little brains. Any number of people can be at the same event and every one of them will have a different opinion of what was happening.
Some people will find fault and flaws in the things that they see. Others will find pleasure and perfection with many highlights. But they all actually saw the same thing. They just interpreted it differently depending on their mood at the time, previous experiences or maybe certain expectations. So we should all try to remember that every person is different. Every journey is different. Every thought process is different. Very seldom will you find someone who is thinking about the same things that you are.
And we all think that we are right in the way we are thinking. And we may be, but someone else may be correct also.
Give people a break. Rather than deciding what you think someone â€˜needs to doâ€™, ask yourself what you need to do to help them out. It is a much better system.